A Disheartening Trend.

Their are people who use Qur'an and Hadiths as their guidance to facilitate/prove their love/marriage but when once it breaks,  they forget to go with the same source of guidance,rather they use the regional marriage acts and make misuse of it , book them under false dowry cases in the court ,hire police and spy agents to take revenge from the opposite party, pelt them with foul and evil words and do lot of other things to put off their fire of jealousy.


Its really disheartening to hear that many brides and grooms today are embarking the ship of marriage using fortified lies, fradulent promises and mystified deception.These things with passing of time make's big holes in their ship, making it to sink with divorce and depression.

Those who claim themselves as 'Muslim' should also marry according to 'Islamic shariah' only, and if at all in future they want to depart/divorce for some genuine reason,then they may, but not according to their country's law/or own desires (going to court/filing a false case against them) rather according to their creator's. Those who make misuse of someones sincerity, right's, property and honor in the name of democracy/ family status/ position or whatsoever will be taken an apt revenge by the most Powerful and most Supreme in  such a way that nothing comes in to their lot but  ignominy.

Whosoever marry and remarry making use of lies, fraud and deception will reap very bitter fruits of their deeds today or tomorrow and will face evil consequences, for 'LOVE' if not followed with truth and loyalty will ruin one's life and know that Allah Alone created it and
will take care of it only if one drive it (boat of love/life) with the paddles of truth and justice.

Dad, Let's Accept The Truth.

One day, a rich father took his beloved son to a near by village on a trip.He actually  wanted to show him how poor someone can be.They spent few days on the farm of a poor Muslim family. On the way home, the father asked his son, Dear! Did you see how poor they are? How miserable their life is, can you tell me all that you have learned from this trip?


The son replied,Yes dad! I have learned something what you couldn't teach me for so many years and nor did my teachers at school.Dear dad! We have a pool, but they have rivers, we have lanterns at night, but they have stars.We have costly cars which are fuel  Dependant but they have horses which are free. we have to breath the polluted air but they don't have to.We buy our food, but they grow theirs. We have guards to protect us, but they have friends.We have encyclopedias, but they have one magnificent and glorious book called Qur'an.


Then he added: Thanks  Dad, for showing me how poor really we are. Surely we have big things but not great things. we are rich from outside but miserably poor inside.
Dear Dad! Lets live a life with some standards instead of living a standard life. I see with my heart what I can't with my eyes.Dad let's accept the truth before it's too late.

Model Of Modesty!

There are 60 branches of faith and modesty is one of them.


Narrated by Abu Huraira (ra): The Prophet said, “Faith (Belief) consists of more than sixty branches (i.e. parts). And Haya is a part of faith.” (Bukhari)


“Every religion has a distinct call. For Islam it is Haya’.” [Ibn Majah].


Haya itself is derived from the word hayat which means life. This term covers a wide number of concepts. In English, it may be translated as modesty, shyness, self-respect, bashfulness, shame, honour, humility, etc. 


Abdullah ibn Umar (ra) narrated that the Prophet (saw) said: “Indeed haya (modesty) and Iman are Companions. When one of them is lifted, the other leaves as well.” (Baihaqi)


 Haya and Iman are interdependent; therefore either they both exist together or they both perish. Thus, the Prophet (saws) has said in one hadith, "When there is no haya left, then do as you please."


Asking whether modesty is greater or lesser than faith, is like asking someone: Are you the son of your father first or your mother first? Naturally of both first, a wise child may reply.

Faith and modesty are intertwined together,one cannot seperate,but if one tries to, he/she will end up loosing both. A woman is no woman without modesty and a Muslim woman is no woman without faith and modesty.


Those who say that they can be good muslima's even, without wearing  hijab ...they should think twice before they speak from now onwards because they are directly/indirectly insulting the  Ummahatul Mumeneen and all the sahabiyath( may Allah be pleased with them) who practised hijab perfectly in all spheres of life so much so that they wished there coffins to be carried to grave during night time.

 I read that Hazrat Faitmah(r) said that the best thing for a muslim woman is that she see no man(non-mahrams) and no man see her except her mahrams.


Faith cannot remain pure when modesty is adulterated or polluted. Modesty by itself is  both character and a intrinsic part of faith.

All those  pervert politicians, corrupted feminists who bark like mad dogs saying 'She(Muslim woman) can be good and beautiful even without covering herself, are indirectly saying that nudity and nakedness is not of body but of heart.They destroyed thier daughters and dont want to spare ours.

Indeed its the nature of animals to be so(naked) and not of human beings.


To sum up, modesty is such a child of her mother (faith) that if she (faith) becomes weak or sick,her child (modesty) too becomes weak and sick and the child(modesty) cannot live without her mother(faith).When she dies(leaves) her child too will.~Hamid


P.s: I didn't intend to insult or hurt anyone.But If truth hurt's someone ,then Im not responsible for it.

Moral Pinch.

These are the times where, even our good Muslim Sisters, come across many situations in their day-to-day life, where they have to confront our sick brothers. When I say sick, I don't mean physical or mental sickness but moral one. This post is a tiny reflection of some such situations.


So sisters, when you come across such sick brothers , just pinch them morally instead of just giving negative answers. I hope  these moral pinches, will help some of our brothers in curing their sickness.Allah willing!

(1) 

Hi, May I drop you at your college?

No thanks! I have my own means (legs). Better drop some handicapped one.

(2)

Hello! May I help you to lift your burden?

Yes! Can you lift my burden of sins as they have overburdened me.

(3) 

Excuse me! We all are going for a good movie,would u like to join us?

No.

Please!

No!Not at all.

But why?

I'm busy with my own.

What...your own movie? What u mean?

My life itself is a real movie for me. I'm busy in making it better.

(4) 

Hello! Can you show me your modesty?

How can I show that?

Just by lowering your gaze.Don't stare at me again, because Allah is watching you.

(5) 

Hey what happened to you? You seem worried today.Do you need any help?

No thanks! I'm good Alhumdulillah. I'm just thinking of my aakhirah.(hereafter)

(6) 

Hey you! I think you are a Muslim. Aren't you?

Yes I'm. Why do you ask when you already knew?

Well, you should follow Islam, before following me.

(7) 

Excuse me! Can I have your number please?

Why?

Hmm, I just wanna talk to you, tonight.

Im sorry I can't, better you talk to my friend.

Ok, No problem! May I know who is your friend?

Yes, the one who knows the hidden secrets of his slaves.

Talk to him tonight, May you be guided.

(8)


Oh, Mashallah! You look awesome in this Hijab today.Where did you buy it from?
Please!Shut your eyes and heart from me and remember my beloved who created you-The owner of Might n Majesty, the possessor of faith and beauty.


(9)


Salam! As today is My Birth day, I would like to give you a gift, instead of you giving me.
Well, May I know what for?
Hmm, just I wanna make you happy.No other reason.
Ok fine! Give it to an orphan please, I will be more than happy.


(10)


Excuse me, If you don't mind can I take your picture please?
But why?
You look hot in this new black Hijab.
Oh I see, remember the grave will be blacker and the hell will be hotter than this.


(11)


Dear, I love you!
You shouldn't.
What? 
You shouldn't love me.
Why?
Because, those who believe are stronger in their love for Allah.(Qur'an#2:165)

Three Wishes & Two Questions.

If you had three wishes, what would you wish for yourself, right now at this moment? Success, wealth, trust, health, love, intellect, education,  opportunities, friendship, courage, ambition, passion,  legacy, companionship, freedom, optimism, confidence,  faith, compassion, power, beauty, intelligence,  understanding, independence, enthusiasm,   tolerance, spirituality, luxury, nobility...

A Question for sisters : If an angel appears before a bride and offers a boon on the eve of her marriage, what is the best wish that a girl can make?

A Question for brothers: If an angel appears before a groom and offers a boon on the eve of his marriage, what is the best wish that a boy can make?

Seven Wonders !

O People! Use your heart sight to see things which you cannot see with your eye sight.~Hamid.

I have never seen any wonder, wonderful than these seven wonders.
Whoever is blessed with these bounties is  indeed a wonderful person.


You, a Wonder:


1) The ability to see and observe.
2) The ability to hear and listen.
3) The ability  to think and reflect.
4) The ability to touch and feel.
5) The ability to read and write.
6) The ability to speak and communicate.
7) The ability to Love and beloved.


Divine Dose's:


And follow not that of which thou hast no knowledge. Verily, the ear and the eye and the heart - all these shall be called to account.(Qur'an # 17:36) 


On the Day when their own tongues  and hands and feet will bear witness against them by [recalling] all that they did!(Qur'an # 24:24)


And they will ask their skins, “Why did you bear witness against us?” - [and] these will reply: “God, who gives speech to all things, has given speech to us [as well]: for He [it is who] has created you in the first instance - and unto Him you are [now] brought back.
(Qur'an # 41:21)


READ  in the name of thy Sustainer, who has- created man out of a germ-cell. Read - for thy Sustainer is the Most Bountiful One who has taught [man] the use of the pen, taught man what he did not know!(Qur'an # 96:1-5)


"They (the disbelievers) love this worldly life more than the Hereafter" (Qur'an # 16:107) 
 
"O you believe .. Allah has made you love the Faith,and made it so beautiful in your hearts,and has made you hate disbelief,immorality and rebelliousness.These are the righteous.This is grace and bounty,from Allah, as Allah is All-knowledgeable and All-Wise" (Qur'an # 496:8) 




A Thought:


Man, indeed is the most amazing of all creations.He see with a pair of fatty layers (eyes), hears with a pair of bones (ears), speak with a lump of flesh (tongue), thinks with the help of tissues (brain) , reflect and love using a muscle (heart) and stand upon his skeletal structure of bones,originally made from a water drop (semen) ~Hamid.


An Opinion:


If we don't use all the above seven wonders in the right way, at the right time and for the right purpose in order to achieve the most wondrous of all things (Paradise)  then we are considered as animals. Nay,even a degree less than that.


Proof:


And certainly We have created for hell many of the jinn and the men -- they have hearts wherewith they understand not, and they have eyes wherewith they see not, and they have ears wherewith they hear not. They are as cattle; nay, they are more astray. These are heedless ones.(Qur'an 7:179)

Four In Number.

A casual but curious reflection, upon things in Glorious Qur'an, within our self's and upon things around us, which i found to be four in number/four types.There may be many more such things but I'm unaware of those.Please share If you know.


Four From Qur'an:
1) The  four promises taken in chapter # 95.
2) The number of wifes a man can marry is Only four.
3) The Only four Holy books  are mentioned in Glorious Qur'an.
4) There are Only four types of human creation mentioned in Qur'an.
5) The Holy House of Almighty Allah (swt) is made of Only  four walls.
6)The Only two, four versed chapters of Qur'an are chapter #106 and 112.
7)There are four chapters in the last unit which begins with Qul meaning ~Say!
8) The Blessed name of our prophet (pbuh) has been mentioned by name Only four times.
9) The cursed satan attacks human being from four directions as mentioned in Qur'an# 7:17.
10)  The Only four rivers mentioned in Qur'an are river of milk, of honey, of water and of  pure wine.
11) Four sacred months i.e. Muharram, Rajab, ZeeQa'idah and Zilhajjah.
Four From Hadith:


1) Four seasons.
2) Four directions.
3) Four Great Angles.
4) Four Great Mosque's of Islamic History.
5) The First four Caliphs of the Prophet (pbuh).
6) The four daughters of Prophet Muhammad (pbuh).


Four in our Body:

1) The human liver has four lobes: the right lobe and left lobe, which may be seen in an anterior view plus the quadrate lobe and caudate lobe, which may be seen on the visceral surface.

2)The human brain has four lobes : Frontal, Parietal, Occipital and Temporal.

3) The human heart has four chambers : Right atrium, right ventricle,left atrium,left ventricle.

4)The human heart has four valves:Tricuspid valve.Pulmonary valve. Mitral valve.Aortic valve.

5)The humans has got four different types of teeth : Incisors, canine teeth, premolars and molars.

6) Four types of taste buds.ie. sweet, salty, sour and bitter.

 Four in Feelings:

A) Four types of Love


I feel and I know love should be of Four types and here is a good explanation of it.

Ibn Al-Qayyim (may Allaah have mercy on him) said regarding this matter:There are four kinds of love, which we must differentiate between, and those who go astray do so because they do not make this distinction. 

1) The first of them is love of Allaah, but this alone is not sufficient to save a person from the punishment of Allaah and to earn him His reward. The Mushrikeen, worshippers of the cross, Jews and others all love Allaah. 

2) The second is love of that which Allaah loves. This is what brings a person into Islam and out of Kufr. The most beloved of people to Allaah is the one who is most correct and most devoted in this kind of love. 

3) The third kind is love for the sake of Allaah, which is one of the essentials of loving that which Allaah loves. A person's love of that which Allaah loves cannot be complete until he also loves for the sake of Allaah. 

4) The fourth is love for something alongside Allaah, and this love has to do with shirk. Everyone who loves things alongside Allaah but not for the sake of Allaah has taken that thing as a rival to Allaah. This is the love of the Mushrikeen. 

(Al-Jawaab al-Kaafi, 1/134)

B) Four types of Anger

I have observed ,experienced and thus came to a conclusion that anger is of four types.

i) Anger which comes late and goes quick.

ii) Anger which comes quick and goes quick.

iii) Anger which comes late and goes late.

iv) Anger which comes quick and goes late.

Extra four:


1) The most difficult of deeds are also four.


 i) Forgiveness when angry.
 ii) Generosity in hard times.
 iii) Chastity when alone.
 iv) Speaking the truth to the one that fears it.


2) The powerful  four doors that leads in to one's heart are two eyes and two ears.

3) Its only on Friday that an Imam has to recite aloud in the four  prayers, unlike in three during the rest of the week.

4) The simple and just four fair tips to maintain good health.

i) Bath daily, If possible.
ii) Moderate exercise daily.
iii) Eat right things at right time daily.
iv) Sleep sufficiently daily without any worries.

A Golden Gift.

A gift, whose color is neither golden nor silver, whose shape is neither square nor circle and whose price is unknown.
A gift, which is purchased for you,neither from a gold shop nor from a gift shop but from a sweet shop named        "My HearT"


I Love U...Shouldn't I?


Infact I should...Indeed I will.


Why? You may ask and you should ask...


I have an answer for it and here it is...


I love you because you are loved by the most loving one
(Al-Wadood) and here are few undeniable proofs to proof that you are loved by the creative creator (Ahsan-ul-Khaliqeen) who created it (love) and its residence too (heart).




Moreover,I hope you may be one among these, of whom Qur'an speaks about...


Indeed Allah (swt) loves those who are steadfast (3:146), those who are god fearing  (9:7), those who are kind (5:13), those who keep themselves pure and clean(2:222), those who strive/fight in his cause (61:4), those who put their trust in him (3:159) and those who judge in equity (5:42).


 The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said: "If one of you loves his brother, he should tell him that he loves him." - Imam Bukhari's Book of Muslim Morals and Manners.


A Beautiful and Creative fact:


The most smallest letter is    I
The most fragrant word is  Love
The most sweetest letter is  U


A Sweet and Neat Note: Truly, Love is such an amazing gift which never dies because it was created by Ahsan-ul-Khaliqeen ( the best of creators), it never becomes old too, neither its beauty fades away nor its fragrance disappears. In fact Love is a sweet secret by virtue of which foes becomes friends and strangers becomes spouses.~Hamid


A Simple and Humble Request: Share the golden gift with whom ever you think you should as I shared with you because I thought I should.

A Lovely Dua: O Allah! I ask you of your love and the love of those who love you, and for the love of every action which will bring me close to your love.

Supplicate, but Sweetly.

Supplicate these sincerely and profusely for yourself, for your beloveds , for your friends, for the orphans,the widows,the depressed ones ,the oppressed ones,the grief stricken and the poverty beaten ones and in general on behalf of every Muslim across the globe, especially in the last ten days and more specifically in the odd nights of Lailatul Qad'r, apart from others dua's that you make for all of us.InshAllah.


O Allah, do not prevent me from the good that is with you because of the evil that is with me.


O Allah when I lose hope because my plans have come to nothing...then please help me remember that your love is always greater than my disappointment and your plans for my life are always better than my dreams.


O Allah! Drown me completely in the sea of your mercy, clean me thoroughly with the power of your forgiveness, pull me slowly from my difficulties, push me gently in to your bounties, guide me continuously to seek your pleasure, help me quickly to achieve your treasure, shower upon me your beautiful blessings and give me your great glad tidings.

Now I'm in Love

I think I was... I' believe I'm... I'm sure I will be InshAllah...in Love with my Beloved and his magnificent and mesmerizing messages. Why shouldn't I be in love, when it mentioned about me and my future. Why shouldn't I be in love, when it honored me more than anything else did? Why shouldn't I be in love, when it will be my friend in my grave and my intercessor when I'm raised up? InshAllah.  Truly my tongue is incapable, words are insufficient and feelings are inexpressible ... Of all the wonders I have searched for, I didn't find a wonder greater than this.Of all the miracles I have heard so far, I didn't find a miracle amazing than this.Of all the books I have read so far, I didn't find the bliss what I have found in this. I have found that its truth is undeniable, its statements are irrefutable, its speech is unarguable, its honor is unchallengeable, its words are unchangeable, and what to say its style is unique and universal. It enables me to distinguish right from wrong, it is my friend in my loneliness, it guides me to happiness, it sustains me in misery, it is my crown among my friends and an armor against my enemies. It nourishes my soul and heart better than anything else can. It melts my heart when it becomes hard enough and heals, when weak it (heart) becomes. It has the power to cure my various diseases which no doctor or drug can cure. It is to me a creative compass which always points me in the right direction whenever I feel I'm lost. It is a telescope for me, through which I see things which I cannot see even through my eyes. It gives me mental peace and emotional ease, which cannot be sold by anyone. It provides me with the wealth of knowledge and wisdom which cannot be robbed by the most advance of the thief's. It instills in me a sense of love, hope and fear which cannot be destroyed, even by the nuclear weapons. It has answered mine even those curious questions so perfectly, that i cannot question them further. It has imbibed in me the true purpose of this life and pumped the joy of the life of hereafter. A Fact: For a body to be in a balanced state, it needs a balanced diet, so also for a soul (which has come from heaven) to be in a balanced condition, it needs its provision and Qur'an is it's. A Question: If fishes cannot survive without water, how can human beings live without it? Remember it's easy to survive but to live is difficult. Statement: When I look in to a mirror I see my face but when I look in to the Qur'an I see my heart. I wash my face with soap and water but my heart with tears and tauba .