Friday, July 16, 2010

The Best Girl.

She is a visible form of love, a marvelous sign of creation and a splendid being of beauty.She is the tallest when she stands, prominent when she sits and the  most truthful when she speaks.She is the one whose anger subsides quickly, who appeases her husband if he is angry and whose laugh is a beautiful smile.

She is rich by her good manners, noble because of her religion and beautiful because of love she gives and receives.She obeys her husband and adheres to her home (goes out only if required or necessary).

She is honored among her people, yet insignificant in her own mind.She is  fertile and fragrant  to her husband, affectionate and passionate towards her children, and  kind and generous towards her subordinates.When she does anything, she does it well.Moreover her faith is unshakeable, honor is unchallengeable, and undeniable are her services.

In short: She is gorgeous but untouchable, precious but unplayable, fragile but unbreakable and simple but unforgettable .

Exclusive example: The best girls are like dates on the trees. The best ones are at the top of the tree.The boys don't want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt. Instead, they just get the simple ones from the ground that aren't as good, but easy. So the dates (girls) at the top think something is wrong with them, when in reality, they're amazing.They just have to wait for the right boy to come along, the one who's brave enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree.

Awesome analogy: For a fruit to be sweet, it's seed must be good, for the seed to be good it's provison must be  lawful and for the seed to be sown, it's field must be fertile ~ Hamid.


CATGIRL said...

Hey dear! I am a female MBA from Karachi, Pakistan. Honestly just browsing through good blogs and literate & intelligent writers like you to talk to me on various issues. Love ur blog outlook and ur awesome thoughts. I write on issues related to society, religion as well as some funny stuff. Best of Luck for ur blogging. I hope u can be a follower- if u like my blog? And don’t forget to comment please !!

Khadijah C. said...

Masha'Allah! =D

Beautifully said! Please do allow me to post in my blog!

Sana said...

MashAllah, that was very good and touching. I especially loved the part in the exclusive example. It's so true because i kept thinking there was sumthing wrong with me but you made it quite clear in your example about the tree, and it's cuz Allah knows who is right for each person. Anyway thanks for that, loved it. May Allah reward you.

ishqia said...

i love what u said about dates over there...

Samsad Jahan said...

Loved it brother. The exclusive example is exclusive :D. JazakAllah

MuslimFirst said...

Wow Br. Hamid - this is so very true. You put it so beautifully! Indeed, there are many gems out there, but so few of us males that are worthy of such diamonds Thus, sadly, there are many such ladies still waiting for that right man to come along to reach out for them and be worthy companions.

Jazak'Allahu Khairan for anther gem of your own - these are always simple, but meaningful, deep anecdotes for us to ponder over.

Hamid said...

@ Cat girl ~ Welcome!Grat to know about you. Honestly saying, I may be a literate one but not at all an intelligent writer. I know what I'm, more than anyone else.
Thanks a lot for your appreciation.
Sorry to say,Im not a rich discusser in those issues and moreover for the next two months Im completely busy.Shukriya for your wish/luck. I cannot promise in this regard.Anyways I will chek it out Inshallah.Jazakallahu kahiran for dropping by and commenting.

@ Khadijah ~ Shukrulillah! After all there is no need to take permission in these matters.Go ahead ,take whatever you want and post where ever you wish.

@ Sana ~ Alhumdulillah!Aww nice to know.There can be delay in Allah's decision but not the denial.Keep following piety and patience so that success and happiness follow you.Jazakallahu khaira.A'meen @ur dua and same to you.

@ ishqia ~ Merhaba! I mentioned it specifically because its an amazing tree whose leafs never fall.

@ samsad jahan ~ Thank you.The main idea behind that exclusive example is from unkown source, but I modified it slightly.

@ Muslim first ~ Nice to see you akhee.The idea behind it is of someone else and mine is just modification.Agree with you akhee.Everyone's companion has been already created,its just the matter of time now.Your comment is no less precious akhee.Big thanks and small wishes.

Anonymous said...

MashaALLAH..!! Love it!! :D

Anonymous said...

Oh I loved to read this very much!! Jazakallah khair!

Mustika Sari Sayuti said...

Subhanallah.. a very beautiful post.. may I share it to my friends?


Hamid said...

@ rose water~ shukran for your words.

@ mustika ~ walaikum salam.
yes you can.

Anonymous said...

Asalaamu- alaykum
Its an encouragement & motivation to those modest & chaste women.

Hamid said...

walaikum salam.

ya ur right.

Anonymous said...

well said alhamdulilla,the dates at the top should always remain at the top for the ryt person to pluck u.never evr even for a moment wish to be the lower date n get into the wrong hands..allah indeed cares


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