Monday, October 24, 2011

A Disheartening Trend.

Their are people who use Qur'an and Hadiths as their guidance to facilitate/prove their love/marriage but when once it breaks,  they forget to go with the same source of guidance,rather they use the regional marriage acts and make misuse of it , book them under false dowry cases in the court ,hire police and spy agents to take revenge from the opposite party, pelt them with foul and evil words and do lot of other things to put off their fire of jealousy.

Its really disheartening to hear that many brides and grooms today are embarking the ship of marriage using fortified lies, fradulent promises and mystified deception.These things with passing of time make's big holes in their ship, making it to sink with divorce and depression.

Those who claim themselves as 'Muslim' should also marry according to 'Islamic shariah' only, and if at all in future they want to depart/divorce for some genuine reason,then they may, but not according to their country's law/or own desires (going to court/filing a false case against them) rather according to their creator's. Those who make misuse of someones sincerity, right's, property and honor in the name of democracy/ family status/ position or whatsoever will be taken an apt revenge by the most Powerful and most Supreme in  such a way that nothing comes in to their lot but  ignominy.

Whosoever marry and remarry making use of lies, fraud and deception will reap very bitter fruits of their deeds today or tomorrow and will face evil consequences, for 'LOVE' if not followed with truth and loyalty will ruin one's life and know that Allah Alone created it and
will take care of it only if one drive it (boat of love/life) with the paddles of truth and justice.


Anonymous said...

Assalamualaikum wa Rahmatullah Brother Hamid.

Yes, unfortunately this is so true about the way couples are dealing with Marital problems and dissolution of Marriage. Monetary gains and dominance over each other has become the primary goal and not the Book and laws of Allah swt, especially when it comes to family life. And yes, this is so prevalent in homes where the couples are so- called practicing muslims and unfortunately lead to broken homes. May Allah guide all of us!

Hamid said...

Walaikum salam warahmatullahi wabarakatuh.

If every Muslim adopts only this one concise teaching of Deen, most of the problems between people would be resolved. Malice, jealousy backbiting, revenge and a host of other social evils will be eliminated. Love and brotherhood will prevail.

“None of you is a believer until he loves for his brother (his fellow Muslims) what he loves for himself.” (Sahih Muslim)

The message is clear: The person who does not love for his brother what he loves for himself is not worthy of the title of Mu’min (Believer), though his Imaan itself is not negated by this serious deficiency in his life.

What does it really mean to love for others what one loves for oneself? There are two meanings to this hadith.

Firstly, one should treat others in the same manner that one would like to be treated. For instance, every person loves that he should be treated with respect and honour. He does not like to be mocked or ridiculed, or want anyone to harm his life, dignity and belongings. He should therefore treat others in the same manner. He should not harm anyone in any way or desire any ill for anyone.

The second aspect that applies is the following: If you were in the next person’s situation, what would you have desired for yourself. For instance a fellow Muslim is a trader. If you were the trader in his place, what would you have desired for yourself? Surely you would have earnestly wished that your business prospers and is protected from all harm, that it becomes the means of earning the good of this world and the Hereafter, etc. You should now love the same for your fellow Muslim trader. Think in a similar manner with regard to every other person, whoever he may be. What good you would have desired for yourself had you been in his shoes, desire the same for him.

Anonymous said...

Assalamualaikum wa Rahmatullah.

Perfect Hadith for the situation with a solution, SubhanAllah!

Unfortunately, in today's world, a person who is an adherent of good behavior is looked upon as old-fashioned and meek and weak. And in situations of conflict, good behavior is often met with malicious ways to put the person down and prove to be dominant ,instead of learning from good behavior and humbling oneself before Allah and being nice to the Nicer one:(

Shaytaan is very clever and tries hard to ruin the bond between a husband and wife, who are the basic unit of society, so that there emerges a challenge for the children out of that marriage and for the couples themselves for the rest of their lives.He distracts them from earning a better place in the Akhira and keeps them busy in trying to fix their duniya.

May Allah put a lot of mercy and affection between all couples going through trials.


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