Tuesday, August 03, 2010

Advice for Brothers.

A real story: There was a Brother in Glasgow (United Kingdom) who became ill and was hospitalized. He was admitted for three days and on the fourth day the attendant nurse said, "Marry me".He [the brother in Glasgow] asked, "Why? I am a Muslim, you and I cannot become companions---Muslim men don't date." She said, "I will become Muslim". "What's the reason?" it was asked. She said, "In all my time that I have served in hospitals, except you, I have never seen a man lower his gaze in front of a woman. In my life you are the first person who lowers his gaze when seeing a woman. I come, and you close your eyes. Such great modesty can be taught by none other than a true religion."

An Exclusive Advice: When you want to marry a girl, the first thing you should look in her  must be true Faith in God, if she has that, give her a 1.(one point) Second if she has beauty, add a 0 to that 1, so now you have a 10. For every good thing, keep adding more 0's…Intelligence: 100, Manners: 1000, so on and so forth. But if you take Faith out, all you have left is a bunch of zeros.

A Special Note: A muslim male is envisaged in Islam as vivile,dynamic,tough and powerfully masculine.He does not care how he looks and what the people think of him.He is too sure of himself and confident too.A fashionable person is on the other hand somewhat effeminate,who tries to sell himself.His adoption of the latest fashions is a sign of his weak character and personality -Syed Iqbal Zaheer, editor of Young muslim digest magazine.


Samsad Jahan said...

Salam brother, mashAllah really nice post. ur suggestion is reallyy exclusive. without faith we are bunch of zeros. May Allah provide us from among spouses comfort to our eyes.

MuslimFirst said...

Salaam Br. Hamid - I've actually come across this story somewhere else on the net, but can't quite remember where, but it is such a beautiful story and never gets old.

Also, great added points and advice.

Jazak'Allahu Khairan as always.

Br. MF

BubbliMuslima said...

mashAllah i love the true story and the advice is soooo true and i think the same goes for accepting a man for marriage. thanks for sharing br.

Hamid said...

@ samsad jahan~ Walaikum salam sister. Yea,Faith is the foundation of our life.Ameeen at your dua.Jazakallahu khairan for your compiment.

@Muslim first~ Walaikum salam akhee.Really, such stories are golden ones which never gets old.
shukran for your compliment akhee.
May i know your full name akhee?

@Bubbli Muslima~ Agree 100% with your view.
Thanks for your comment.

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