When you are cracking with pain, don't build a graveyard in your heart.Don't bury your pieces in someone else's soil. Go to the sink and make wudhu.Let the water run through every crack, Let it cleanse you. Pull out your mat and turn to Makkah. Let every "Allahu Akbar" echo in yor heart, reminding you that your pain will be taken care of. Pour out your heavy heart to him when your forehead is on the ground.Remember that this nation was gifted with prayer after years of sadness.
Prayer is and it should be your greastest comfort.