Think how many people have sat next to you on a bus, train, and plane whatever. Now think how many people have sat next to you on purpose, with their fingers crossed in hope that you’ll talk to them. I’m sure somebody has. There are plenty of times when somebody seen you and hoped that you spoke to them, but you never did, because you don’t have the guts, and neither do they. Don’t go around thinking nobody likes you and that you’re not loved. There’s been plenty of times when a stranger has spotted you and thought “Oh they’re just my type,” but haven’t had the courage or confidence to open their mouth and initiate a conversation, the funny thing is, neither have you.
Sometimes we attach ourselves too closely to people and when they are gone a part of us is gone too.Sometimes, the biggest risks are those we take with our hearts.
Don't live a life full of plans.Sometimes, the best moments happen when unplanned and the greatest regrets happen on not reaching what is planned.
4 comments:
subhan Allah, wonderful advice akhi..I wish I have the courage to talk to people around me easily. There's that fear of being rejected by others that pull us back I guess..
p/s/ btw, love the pics you put up.. Al-hamdulillah, so beautiful!
I didn't mean that we should talk to opposite gender but of same one.
Be they muslim or non muslim we should talk to them, I don't understand why one will be rejected if we talk to the same gender.
yes of course talking to same gender.. and also, why I said one might be rejected is because not everyone opens up easily so they might not like having anyone talking to them. we don't live in an ideal world whereby everyone is friendly and willing to have a chat with you..
Agree!
some strangers may be highly introverts.they like to be alone with their own world of thoughts and feelings and passions.
instead of travelling silently on long journeys, we should initiate a healthy,positive and constructive conversation with our neighbour passengers taking in to considerations of the situations .
if one can't, then better he/she should read and reflect his fav books.
I usually talk to strangers ( only males) who smile at me when i look upon them.
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